I wish things had turned out better with my sister, but she always wanted to be in charge. She was "too busy" to help with mom in the hospital, but wanted to be first in line for a handout. She wouldn't let me sign any papers on mom's behalf until she looked at them first, but let ME sign them. All the power, none of the responsibility.
Then she tried to cheat me out of part of my inheritance. When I called her out, she got mad at me.She always had to be in charge without having to answer for it.I guess from here on out, I'm an only child. Mom put her estate in a trust, but now that the trust is ending, I'm not sure I want anything to do with my sister anymore. She's self-centered, greedy and conniving. It would have been nice to have a brother or sister to relate to, but I guess I never will.